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		<title>Hilarious British Animal Voiceovers</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jan 2011 08:28:04 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is too funny</p>
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		<title>The Manifesto of Encouragement</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jan 2011 08:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mariette</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Someone wants to kiss you, to hold you, to make tea for you. Someone is willing to lend you money, wants to know what your favorite food is, and treat you to a movie. Someone in your orbit has something immensely valuable to give you -- for free.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>The Manifesto of Encouragement</h1>
<div><strong>Right now:</strong></div>
<div><strong><br />
</strong></div>
<div>There are Tibetan Buddhist monks in a temple in the Himalayas endlessly reciting mantras for<strong> the cessation of your suffering and for the flourishing of your happiness</strong>.</div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span></div>
<div>Someone you haven&#8217;t met yet is already dreaming of <strong>adoring</strong> you.</div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span></div>
<div>Someone is writing a book that you will read in the next two years that will <strong>change how you look at life</strong>.</div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span></div>
<div>Nuns in the Alps are in endless vigil, praying for the Holy Spirit to <strong>alight the hearts</strong> of all of God&#8217;s children.</div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span></div>
<div>A farmer is looking at his organic crops and whispering, &#8220;<strong>nourish them</strong>.&#8221;</div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span></div>
<div><strong>Someone wants to kiss you, to hold you, to make tea for you.</strong> Someone is willing to lend you money, wants to know what your favorite  food is, and treat you to a movie. Someone in your orbit has something  immensely valuable to give you &#8212; for free.</div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span></div>
<div>Something is being <strong>invented</strong> this year that will change how your generation lives, communicates, heals and passes on.</div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span></div>
<div><strong>The next great song</strong> is being rehearsed.</div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span></div>
<div>Thousands of people are in yoga classes right now intentionally <strong>sending light out from their heart chakras</strong> and wrapping it around the earth.</div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span></div>
<div>Millions of children are assuming that everything is amazing and will always be that way.</div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span></div>
<div>Someone is in profound pain, and a few months from now, they&#8217;ll be <strong>thriving like never before</strong>. They just can&#8217;t see it from where they&#8217;re at.</div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span></div>
<div>Someone who is craving to be partnered, to be acknowledged, to  ARRIVE, will get precisely what they want &#8212; and even more. And because  that gift will be so fantastical in it&#8217;s reach and sweetness, it will  quite magically alter their memory of angsty longing and render it all &#8220;<strong>So worth the wait.</strong>&#8220;</div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span></div>
<div>Someone has recently cracked open their joyous, genuine nature  because they did the hard work of hauling years of oppression off of  their psyche &#8212; this <strong> luminous juju is floating in the ether</strong>, and is accessible <strong> </strong>to you.</div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span></div>
<div>Someone just this second wished for <strong>world peace</strong>, in earnest.</div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span></div>
<div>Someone is fighting the fight so that <strong>you don&#8217;t have to</strong>.</div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span></div>
<div>Some civil servant is making sure that you get your mail, and your  garbage is picked up, that the trains are running on time, and that you  are generally safe. <strong>Someone is dedicating their days to protecting your civil liberties</strong> and clean drinking water.</div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span></div>
<div><strong>Someone is regaining their sanity. Someone is coming back from the dead. </strong></div>
<div><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span></div>
<div><strong>Someone is genuinely forgiving <strong> </strong>the seemingly unforgivable. Someone is curing the incurable. </strong></div>
<p><strong>You. Me. Some. One. Now.</strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">-</span><br />
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		<title>The Truth About What&#8217;s In Dog Food</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 15:37:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mariette</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Truth About What's In Dog Food. It is easy to be misled about the quality of packaged dog food when we don't know what the words or numbers listed in the ingredients mean.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>We are very trusting consumers</strong> and usually believe that if products were really dangerous they wouldn&#8217;t be allowed on our shelves. Consequently, most of us don&#8217;t know what is really in the commercial food we give our dogs; we certainly wouldn&#8217;t expect this food to actually be unhealthy to our pets. Yet this is often the case. Commercial dog food contains ingredients that make it filling, increase flavor, and add color. Much of the time these companies are trying to make food pleasing to people &#8211; not pets. None of these ingredients contain nutritional benefits, however many of them are harmful! Have you ever seen your dog beg for a bag of flour or dried cornmeal? That is because dogs are carnivores and they eat meat.</p>
<p><strong>It is easy to be misled about the quality of packaged dog food </strong>when we don&#8217;t know what the words or numbers listed in the ingredients mean. It is important to become educated about what we are actually putting into our beloved pets. We can&#8217;t even assume that food sold by veterinarians is free of harmful ingredients. Dog food sold by vets can be as indigestible as products sold in supermarkets.</p>
<p><strong>A common ingredient in commercial dog food is called <em>&#8220;meat by-product&#8221;.</em> </strong>Meat by-product refers to animal parts that are not actually meat and can in fact be anything. It often includes intestines, bones, brain, stomach, lungs, kidneys, spleen, liver and animal blood. While individually, some of these elements of meat by-product are not harmful, they are not as healthy as proper meat and can sometimes make your pet sick if they have come from a diseased animal.</p>
<p><strong>Meat you absolutely have to avoid is known as</strong> &#8220;4-D&#8221; meat. &#8220;4-D&#8221; meats comprise the meat of animals that are killed while already dying, dead, diseased or disabled. Even worse (if that is even possible) 4-D meat can actually be from a euthanized dog. Cannibalism can make animals very sick. Remember that <strong>Mad Cow Disease</strong> was originally caused because cows were fed the ground brains of other cows. If you have to give your dog commercially prepared dog food, make sure there are no 4-D meats in the ingredients and preferably no meat by-products.</p>
<p><strong>Preservatives are also dangerous additives to packaged dog foods. </strong>They are added for a number of different reasons including extending shelf life, improve taste, and keep canned dog food moist. However, it is important to remember that preservatives are chemicals that can be toxic to your dog. Common preservatives include <strong>BHT, BHA, and Ethoxyquin</strong> which is commonly used as a pesticide. Remember that your pet eats the same food every single day and cannot get the variety of nutrients, or a chance to cleanse these poisons if you continue to feed him chemicals.</p>
<p><strong>It takes some effort to make sure</strong> that the food you are feeding your dog is healthy and not harmful. It is actually easier to create a healthy diet for your pet yourself rather than constantly be monitoring what manufacturers may be putting into their packaged foods. A healthy dog does well on raw foods and there are many books and guides available on how to create a healthy diet for your pet. You can also find some excellent dog food recipes online so you can make nutritional and tasty meals for your dog at home. Even if you don&#8217;t like to cook for yourself, there are now human grade pet mixes you can buy are easy to prepare and great for your pet.</p>
<p><strong><a title="raw dog food" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26redirect%3Dtrue%26ref_%3Da9%5Fsc%5F1%26keywords%3Draw%2520dog%2520food%26qid%3D1281368364%26rh%3Di%253Agrocery%252Ck%253Araw%2520dog%2520food&amp;tag=instan-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957" target="_blank">Raw Dog Food</a></strong><br />
Wouldn&#8217;t you like to have natural dog food that would help your dog feel its best? Of course, all pet owners do. But, what to do? Do you take your dog for walks or runs? Do you play with your dog and give him a ton of attention? Of course you do!</p>
<p><strong><a title="dog cancer" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26scn%3D283155%26redirect%3Dtrue%26ref_%3Dsr%5Fnr%5Fscat%5F283155%5Fln%26keywords%3Ddog%2520cancer%26qid%3D1281367756%26h%3D6b84717a556d933651520b4d2e37c89d8a731c65%26rh%3Dn%253A283155%252Ck%253Adog%2520cancer&amp;tag=instan-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957" target="_blank">Dog Cancer</a></strong><br />
Do you have a pet that is suffering or recovering from dog cancer such as, dog lymph cancer, dog skin cancer or kidney cancer? Did you know that dog supplements can help speed up the rate of their recovery and help boost their immune system.</p>
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		<title>The Power by Rhonda Byrne</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 19:54:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mariette</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Power by Rhonda Byrne is going to be released on August 17 2010. I really liked her other book The secret and if this is half as good as that book I will be happy.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1 style="text-align: center;">The Power by Rhonda Byrne</h1>
<p><a title="The Power by Rhonda Byrne" href="http://masterthelawofattraction.net/"><em><strong>The Power by Rhonda Byrne</strong></em></a> is going to be released on August 17 2010. I really liked her other book <strong>The secret</strong> and if this is half as good as that book I will be happy.</p>
<p>Here you can get it as HardCover<br />
Here is the Audio CD Unabridged <span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>READ BY THE AUTHOR HERSELF</strong></span></p>
<p>Here is more information about <a title="the power rhonda byrne" href="http://masterthelawofattraction.net/" target="_self">The Power by Rhonda Byrne</a></p>
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		<title>Economic benefits of gay marriage</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jun 2010 17:51:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mariette</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Not that there is anything wrong with it to begin with, but gay marriage is a boon to the economy.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p id="byline"><em>Really good article about gay marriage by Thomas Kostigen</em></p>
<p>Not that there is anything wrong  with it to begin with, but gay marriage is a boon to the economy.</p>
<p>Weddings create revenue of all sorts. States and local governments  benefit from marriage licenses. Venues get booked and paid for, while  hotels, restaurants and retail outlets also see sales rise. Even  vacation spots get a nice dose of business from the honeymooning couple.</p>
<p>Five states now allow same-sex marriage. All states really should. Even  if a gay marriage doesn&#8217;t work out that helps the economy too. Divorces  cost money, and lawyers as well as state and local government reap fees.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ve all heard gay marriage opponents say giving same-sex partners the  same rights as heterosexual couples destroys family values and the  sanctity of tradition. Of course, beliefs are subjective.</p>
<p>But if one were to cite strictly economic rationale for gay marriage,  there is a great case to be made for it.</p>
<p>Forbes magazine says an immediate windfall of about $17 billion could be  had if gay marriage were made legal nationally. The magazine conducted  the analysis several years ago and determined that &#8220;one thing is  abundantly clear: Legalizing same-sex marriages would mean a windfall  for the wedding industry.&#8221; Weddings are a $70 billion-a-year business.</p>
<p>In another, long-term analysis, the Christian Science Monitor notes a  Congressional Budget Office study, which found that if gay marriage were  allowed throughout the United States, it would improve the federal  budget&#8217;s bottom line.</p>
<p>&#8220;The CBO calculates that same-sex couples would boost Social Security  spending, because the partner of a deceased worker would receive 100  percent of the worker&#8217;s benefit. But the federal government would save  money on Supplemental Security Income, Medicaid, and Medicare,&#8221; the  report says.</p>
<p>If you look carefully through the numbers, the thing that actually makes  the numbers work in gay marriage&#8217;s favor is the caring of one person  for another. When people show they care, they spend &#8212; on gifts,  dinners, weekend getaways. On the other end of the spectrum, when people  are in need and there is someone there to care for them, they are less  reliant on social services.</p>
<p>This makes the commitment of marriage very profitable indeed. In any  event, commitment should be embraced. For every two marriages in this  country, there is one divorce. The number of lifelong company employees  has shrunk. And these are just two examples of many that we could all  think of, I&#8217;m sure.</p>
<p>So when commitment does come along, or at least the prospect of it, we  should pull out the stops to support it &#8212; and that means with laws too.</p>
<p>The District of Columbia voted this week to recognize gay marriages  performed in states. Where it is legal, Congress will have to &#8212; because  it has jurisdiction over D.C. &#8212; take up the matter and either let the  ruling stand or veto it.</p>
<p>Congress has spent much of this year dealing with economic woes and  budget issues. It should deal with this issue as well.</p>
<p>Without a doubt, the business of gay marriage can be shown to make  economic sense. Any other sense is really nobody&#8217;s business but those  people gutsy enough to stand before a judge, commit to a life together  and say, &#8220;I do.&#8221;</p>
<p>Gay marriage should be allowed.</p>
<p>By <a href="mailto:tkostigen@aol.com">Thomas Kostigen</a>, MarketWatch</p>
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		<title>Health Cost For Same-sex couples&#8217; Is Higher</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jun 2010 17:44:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mariette</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Even if a state or employer allows coverage for a partner, federal laws don't offer the same tax advantages that heterosexual couples have.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>This is  a really interesting article that I just read from MarketWatch.</strong></p>
<p><em>Even if a state or employer allows coverage for a partner, federal laws don&#8217;t offer the same tax advantages that heterosexual couples have.</em></p>
<p>Each year as the April 15 tax deadline nears, Shane Snowden is reminded how much more she pays for health coverage  for her same-sex partner than her heterosexual colleagues pay for their spouses&#8217; benefits.</p>
<p>While exchanging vows doesn&#8217;t guarantee access to health insurance, marriage makes having it both more likely and less expensive &#8212; if your spouse is of the opposite sex.</p>
<p>Even in states where same-sex marriages are legal, employers may exclude partners from coverage. When they do provide benefits, federal tax laws mean that workers spend more to insure their same-sex domestic partners and children than their heterosexual counterparts do.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s why: Though the value of health benefits that employers pay on behalf of workers&#8217; spouses is excluded from employees&#8217; gross income by federal law, same-sex couples aren&#8217;t extended the same tax breaks. That is, the value of a domestic partner&#8217;s health insurance benefit is counted as income paid to the worker.</p>
<p>For 53-year-old Snowden, the director of the LGBT (Lesbian-Gay-Bisexual-Transgender) Resource Center at the University of California, San Francisco, the value of health benefits for her self-employed partner, Toni, and Toni&#8217;s 19-year-old son adds $9,396 to her annual income, increasing her yearly tax bill by about $3,000, she said. The hit is even harder to take this year because her salary is down 8% because of a mandatory furlough program for University of California employees.</p>
<p>&#8220;In this economy especially, that&#8217;s money we would love to have for other purposes such as college tuition, or it would be a huge amount in terms of our retirement savings,&#8221; Snowden said. &#8220;It&#8217;s a hard time of the year for same-sex persons, when you see your (income tax) refund plummet and say, &#8216;Wow, this is happening because I am in a same-sex relationship.&#8217;&#8221;</p>
<p>Still, Snowden counts herself lucky to work for an employer that provides coverage for domestic partners, a trend that has been on the rise but still has a long way to go, said M.V. Lee Badgett, the research director of the Williams Institute, a think tank at the University of California, Los Angeles, School of Law that tracks trends in law and public policy affecting LGBT Americans.</p>
<p>A provision in the health care reform bill originally passed by the House of Representatives last November would have extended tax-free status to all domestic partners and other non-spouse beneficiaries of employer health plans. But it wasn&#8217;t included in the landmark legislation that President Barack Obama signed into law in March.<br />
Employers step up<br />
About 20% of Americans in same-sex relationships lack insurance, according to federal data from the mid-1990s through the early 2000s.</p>
<p>Large companies are most likely to provide domestic-partner coverage; 59% of Fortune 500 companies include it in their benefits packages, a 12-fold increase since 1995, according to the Human Rights Campaign, which advocates the end of discriminatory practices against LGBT Americans.</p>
<p>Overall, the number of companies that extend same-sex partner benefits is about one in five, or 21%, of all U.S. employers, as opposed to 31% that cover unmarried opposite-sex partners, according to the Kaiser Family Foundation&#8217;s most recent annual survey of employer benefits. Of companies with 200 or more workers, 36% provide same-sex partner benefits, while only 20% of small companies with three to 24 workers do.</p>
<p>Western-region employers are most likely, at 41%, to offer same-sex benefits, with Southern companies least likely, at 6%. Even in Massachusetts, where same-sex marriage is legal, only 71% of employers reported offering benefits to same-sex spouses in 2009, as opposed to 93% who give them to opposite-sex spouses, according to a state-sponsored survey.</p>
<p>About three in four of the United States&#8217; estimated 600,000 same-sex partners get around this hurdle by purchasing health benefits from their own employer, while others may obtain individual plans, Badgett said. Some may choose not to sign up their partners because of the higher tax hit or due to a fear that they will encounter discrimination at work if they disclose having a same-sex partner, she said.</p>
<p>In Snowden&#8217;s case, she said her partner makes enough money from her business to afford an individual plan, but she would be challenged to find one that would accept her son, who suffered an illness that many insurers would exclude as a pre-existing condition.</p>
<p>For those who cannot get affordable coverage from any other source, the impact can be severe and is compounded when a partner with same-sex benefits loses a job, said Dr. Russell Kridel, a Houston plastic surgeon and a member of the American Medical Association&#8217;s Council on Science and Public Health. The group recently completed a study that found that reduced access to and higher costs for employer-based insurance likely leads to lower-quality health care for same-sex households.</p>
<p>&#8220;Even if you have been employed by a progressive company that covered you, once you lose your job, you&#8217;re out of luck because COBRA doesn&#8217;t extend coverage for same-sex partners,&#8221; he said.</p>
<p>Meanwhile, whether an employer will cover the child of a same-sex couple often depends on the relationship of the child to the employee, Kridel said. If the employee is the biological or adoptive parent, then an employer may treat the child as it would for any other worker. But if that child is the domestic partner&#8217;s biological or adopted son or daughter, it&#8217;s up to the employer, he said.</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ve heard stories anecdotally that when a couple with a child is deciding who works, they have to think very carefully (about) the health care coverage,&#8221; Badgett said. &#8220;It leads to complicated decisions for same-sex couples that are not the same for different-sex couples.&#8221;</p>
<p>The situation is further complicated by laws in some states that prohibit both members of a same-sex relationship from holding custody rights for adopted children, she said.<br />
Women less likely to be insured<br />
Women in same-sex households may be hit hardest when employers don&#8217;t offer partner coverage, according to the American Medical Association findings. Only 39% of all women are insured through their job as opposed to 49% of men, and they are nearly twice as likely as men to be insured through another person: 25% compared with 13%.</p>
<p>Based on its study results, the AMA released a policy statement in November supporting the elimination of discriminatory health care laws for gay and lesbian couples and their children. The American Psychiatric Association, the American Academy of Family Physicians, the American Academy of Pediatrics and other medical groups all have issued similar policy statements promoting equality of insurance access and alleviating other barriers to care for LGBT Americans.</p>
<p>Unequal insurance access only compounds other hurdles that same-sex couples and their children face in the health system, said James Beaudreau, the education and policy director of the Gay &amp; Lesbian Medical Association.</p>
<p>&#8220;There are other forms of discrimination in the insurance industry that people often overlook, but it&#8217;s difficult to get a true handle on the nature of those issues,&#8221; he said. &#8220;For example, we often hear about people having higher premiums because they had a hepatitis B vaccination or had an HIV test more than once.&#8221; Yet clinicians often recommend both for sexually active gay men, Beaudreau said.</p>
<p>Also, some small studies with limited geographic focus have suggested that lesbians may have higher rates of cervical, breast and other cancers, which some researchers say may be related to decreased access to cancer screenings or nervousness about admitting sexual orientation to a physician, he said.</p>
<p>&#8220;Having access to a welcoming provider who is able to share with you information about health risks can in some cases prevent a whole host of negative health care outcomes down the line,&#8221; Beaudreau said.</p>
<p>If more companies offered benefits for same-sex partners and their children, enrollment would rise by about 0.1% to 0.3% for gay and lesbian partners, and it would cost only an estimated 1% to 2% more, Badgett said.</p>
<p>&#8220;Mainly it&#8217;s because there aren&#8217;t that many same-sex partners,&#8221; she said. &#8220;In a country of 300 million, there are only about 600,000 same-sex couples.&#8221;</p>
<p>This article was reported by Anya Martin for MarketWatch.</p>
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		<title>Melissa Etheridge &#8211; Fearless Love &#8211; New Album</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mariette</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I just been listening through the samples of Melissa Etheridge new album
Fearless Love]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">I just been listening through the samples of <strong>Melissa Etheridge</strong> new album <strong><br />
Fearless Love</strong> and I have all of her previous albums and<br />
I have to say that<strong> this sounds like it is going to be one</strong> of the best ones<br />
she has done in a long time!</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Go and listen to it yourself:)<br />
Click the image below and you will get right to it on Amazon:)</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love that title. I don&#8217;t care what the book is about, I just have to read it, hahahahaha After going to Amazon to check it out, this is wht they say Who&#8217;s Been Sleeping in Your Head: The Secret World of Sexual Fantasies by Brett Kahr This is a lengthy and informative look at [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love that title. I don&#8217;t care what the book is about, I just have to read it, hahahahaha<br />
After going to <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0465037666?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=instan-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0465037666" target="_blank">Amazon</a> to check it out, this is wht they say</p>
<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0465037666?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=instan-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0465037666" target="_self"><em>Who&#8217;s Been Sleeping in Your Head: The Secret World of Sexual Fantasies by Brett Kahr</em></a></p>
<p>This is a lengthy and informative look at both the psychology of sexual fantasies and a compilation of common fantasies by category. It is very readable, interesting and sheds light on the unconscious processes that give rise to all kinds of sexual fantasies.</p>
<p>Sounds interesting to me:)</p>
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		<title>To all kitten lovers</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jan 2010 08:25:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mariette</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is totally adorable! This is the reason we want and love kittens]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is totally adorable!</p>
<p>This is the reason we want and love kittens</p>
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		<title>Will Smith: Inspirational Wisdom Compilation</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jan 2010 06:17:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mariette</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wooow This is totally awesome. This guy says more intelligent things during 10 minutes than I have ever heard any actor do recently! Worth watching!! “I want to do good. I want the world to be better because I was here.”]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wooow</p>
<p>This is totally awesome. This guy says more intelligent things during 10 minutes than<br />
I have ever heard any actor do recently!</p>
<p>Worth watching!!</p>
<h1 style="text-align: center;">“I want to do good. I want the world to be better because I was here.”</h1>
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